More March Questions Answered

[kybearfuzz]

I really need to check that entry more often. These two are all about dating...

What is your idea of a perfect date?

This is a hard question to answer in a sense, as a perfect date depends largely I think on the other guy too. I really enjoy a date where there is a lot of interest from both parties, good conversation, where a lot of time has passed without realizing it because we were having a good time. This can happen over coffee, over lunch or over dinner. I will admit that I do enjoy a date over dinner for the most part :)

Would you ever go on a date with someone who drinks and smokes occasionally?

I don't think I'd refuse a first date with someone for those reasons, but continuing to date the same guy would depend on your definition of "occasionally"? I'd be a hypocrite to say that drinking would be an issue as I have a beer every now and then myself. Coming from a family of smokers (though I'm not a smoker myself), I don't find it appealing. I even make family members go outside my house if they want to light up (including my 68 year old mother). If a guy smokes when he's out having a beer or something, I don't think I'd mind so much, but if he's doing through a pack every day, that may be a bit much.

If I really liked the guy, then I am sure I could make exceptions.

March is question month, and big thanks to those who have asked so far. If you want to ask a question, you can post it to the original entry here.

Comments

[snowboardjoe.livejournal.com]

Pefect date. So, we appear to get along great on the phone for long periods of time. Should we call that a date? :p

Drinks and smokes. I can't deal with the smoking aspect. Alcohol in moderation is fine. Second hand smoke alone can get me sick to my stomach. I suppose I could tolerate someone show just smokes socially (parties, bars, etc.).

[kybearfuzz.livejournal.com]

LOL! I've never considered the idea of a "phone date" before. Technically, we've had several of those, so we've been phone dating for a good while. I wonder how many phone dates you have to have before you end up having the "phone kiss"? The "phone hug"? And the inevitable "phone sex and sleepover"? How does one "phone cuddle"? If this became popular, I suspect service providers would begin charging extra for those minutes...

I'm not a fan of the smoking. I tolerate it at my mom's and my sister's, but only for short periods of time.

[snowboardjoe.livejournal.com]

Phone kiss? Phone hug? Phone cuddle? Phone sex and sleepover? Nah, I'd rather do that in person. ;)

[kybearfuzz.livejournal.com]

Amen to that! *wink*