Bartender Philosophy

[kybearfuzz]

On a lark, I decided to visit the Serpent, the local leather bar here in the Cincinnati area. I've heard many stories about the place, but I really just wanted to see what it was like inside. Also, I'd chatted with one of the bartenders online and he invited me to stop by sometime.

The bartender in question wasn't there, but I did start chatting with the bartender there named Burger. He's a nice looking guy, solid build, somewhat furry, long mustache, pierced nipple. He gave me a quick tour of the bar, which was something to behold, especially the restraint cross, not that I tried it. The place was pretty much empty, but it was early.

He asked me my "story" and I told him about my coming out not long ago, etc. He told me that he didn't envy what was ahead for me. He said that in this day and age, my slut phase would be particularly dangerous and that I wouldn't be able to stop. I looked at him very curiously. After the ensuing discussion, it made me wonder if every gay man went through a slut phase? To hear him describe the multiple partner sex orgy, I don't think I'll ever go through one. I guess there are varying degrees of sluttiness.

After a couple of beers and some good conversation, I headed home. I was told that I should invest in some leather. Not sure I really like leather enough to wear anything other than the boots.

Comments

[nlotic.livejournal.com]

"it made me wonder if every gay man went through a slut phase"

As someone who just came out too, I haven't gone through or have any desire to go through a "slut phase". I figured out in my early 20s that I was more monogamous.

I think many people don't give consideration to where they fall on the monogamy scale. Some people just aren't the monogamous type and that's fine for them. Others (like me) seem to be more monogamous.

I don't know if is something that just as genetic as sexuality or what.

[kybearfuzz.livejournal.com]

It's an interesting situation. I think with the threat of diseases and such, it's hard to consider being too promiscuous these days. I personally would rather have one guy to do things with.