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There is no defined amount of time a person should wait to look for a new pet after the death of the previous one. It depends on the readiness of the person and one shouldn't rush into it, I think.

However, I've been feeling an emptiness in the house after the passing of Maggie the Cat a couple of weeks ago. I've been looking online at local shelters and saw a couple of possibilities, but I can't say I was ready to adopt one.

The county animal shelter is just down the hill from my house. After work today, I decided to visit the shelter and check out the two possibilities I had considered. One is a male orange tabby and the other was a female black cat. Ideally, I thought it would be nice to get them both.

I checked into the front desk and went to the cat area, a room with a line of comfy cages of cats. I arrived just in time to see a young couple filing the paperwork to adopt the orange male I'd considered. Good for him, I thought. Strangely, he was the only male cat available for adoption. The rest of the cats were female, strangely lethargic, and completely uninterested in vying for my attention.

I pet the orange male tabby as he was still in his cage and he scratched me. It was almost like he was saying, "Hands off! I'm taken!"

So I left the shelter cat-less, which is probably for the best right now. I went in the hopes of finding that cat that seemed to be a good match for me, but it didn't seem to happen.

It's okay, I'm patient.

Date: 2016-03-19 01:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mrdreamjeans.livejournal.com
Do you like dogs? If so, perhaps considering a rescue would be a way of having a presence in the house without feeling like you're replacing your beloved feline friends.

Date: 2016-03-19 04:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kybearfuzz.livejournal.com
I'm not really a dog person. Dogs demand a specific regimen of care that I don't think is a fit for my work life.

Date: 2016-03-19 05:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] champdaddy.livejournal.com
I'm glad to hear you are looking at possible new family members already -- it's the best advice I could give you.

While I'm handing out unsolicited advice, I'd like to plead the case for not declawing your cats. Won't belabor the point -- just that it's akin to chopping their fingers off and leaves them defenseless should they get outside. A scratching post can be really effective with most cats.

Good luck!

Date: 2016-03-19 08:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] barak.livejournal.com
Take your time. When you find your new furry friend, it'll be just right!

Date: 2016-03-19 08:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] changeling72.livejournal.com
Better to get the right cat for you. Two sounds like a nice idea as they would be company for each other whilst you are at work or on your travels.

Date: 2016-03-19 08:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] changeling72.livejournal.com
I have to agree with this. I think it's banned here and in Europe as it's considered cruel.

Date: 2016-03-19 12:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kybearfuzz.livejournal.com
Both Maggie and Murphy were declawed, but I adopted them that way. I don't think I could take a cat to the vet and have that done.

Date: 2016-03-23 03:20 am (UTC)

Date: 2016-03-23 09:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dendren.livejournal.com
I've always liked having 2 cats, it's nice when they have a buddy. I'm sure a cat or two will find you to their liking soon enough and adopt you as their human :)

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