Well, whether you should have is a moot point anyway now, but it's totally up to you. You feel bad because you domated something to someone who squandered what she had already. It's a question whether she will really appreciate something she obviously didn't appreciate when she had it in the first place. I think her husband may appreciate it more. Maybe she'll learn from this in the future. If not, I personally wouldn't give her the opportunity again.
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Date: 2003-12-19 10:04 am (UTC)