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kybearfuzz ([personal profile] kybearfuzz) wrote2012-08-24 03:24 pm
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And Then There Were Three...

The Kids
Mom's Five Kids, January 2000 (L to R)
Joe, Ronnie, Rhonda, Donnie, and Me


Last night around 1 AM, my older brother Donnie passed away from cancer in a crowded hospital room at the age of 54.

Donnie and his twin Ronnie have always followed each other. If one moved away, the other would soon follow. When one moved home, the other was there in months. Ronnie died in his sleep about two years ago. Donnie almost immediately started going downhill. I can't fathom how losing an identical twin must affect a person, but as in life Donnie followed Ronnie.

At his request, Donnie is being cremated with no funeral. We will have a family get-together to bury his ashes in the coming weeks when all the family can be here.

[identity profile] trulygrateful.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Massive hugs to you, sweet bear.

[identity profile] dr-tectonic.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 07:46 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences on your loss.

[identity profile] notdefined.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
It is never easy, I know from experience. Hugs for now and the coming days.

[identity profile] putzmeisterbear.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I am very sorry your family and friends had to go through this. At least your brother is out of pain now.

Big warm hugs.

[identity profile] markgarciachris.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry for your loss.

[identity profile] divos-voids.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 09:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry for your loss, Mark. Big hugs!

[identity profile] bruinwi.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Warm, comforting huggage.

Words are so inadequate.

[identity profile] champdaddy.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Sincere condolences on your loss...

[identity profile] paterson-si.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Condolences.
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[personal profile] jkusters 2012-08-24 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, man, so sorry to hear that. My condolences. :(

[identity profile] bonkishnurtaz.livejournal.com 2012-08-25 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
I am terribly sorry to hear about your loss, Mark. My most sincere condolences on the passing of your brother. ((((((HUGS))))))

[identity profile] mort-83.livejournal.com 2012-08-25 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
I'm very sorry Mark....((((HUG))))

[identity profile] clintswan.livejournal.com 2012-08-25 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry, Mark.

*lovinghugs*

[identity profile] mrdreamjeans.livejournal.com 2012-08-25 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine that you've lost two siblings and how you must feel. Sending lots of hugs!

[identity profile] fogbear.livejournal.com 2012-08-25 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry, buddy....

[identity profile] martini-tim.livejournal.com 2012-08-25 05:14 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, Mark.

/hug

[identity profile] spikejrt.livejournal.com 2012-08-25 11:24 am (UTC)(link)
I am sorry for your loss. Losing a sibling leaves a void in your life that never really goes away. (lost 2 myself)

[identity profile] prisonbitch.livejournal.com 2012-08-25 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I am sorry, Mark. 2012 is turning out to be a rough year for everyone, meThinks.

[identity profile] bigfundrew.livejournal.com 2012-08-26 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
my condolences, sir

[identity profile] epinoid.livejournal.com 2012-08-27 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
May you and your family be comforted and may good memories dull the pain of loss.

[identity profile] maxauburn.livejournal.com 2012-08-29 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. :(

BIG BIG HUGS

[identity profile] coryblank.livejournal.com 2012-08-30 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
You're in my thoughts, Mark.


HUGS